great_badir
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ORIGINAL: jonson My kids have been in private education since they were 4. I did not approve myself, but the wife went out to work (she's a teacher herself) so said from Day 1, that she will work to send them to be privately educated. What I found was the mix of parents - those who can afford it/send their kids because it's the "done thing" in their social circle, and there's the parents (like us) who had to work hard and pay/sacrifice other things to send them (for the first 6 years we had no holiday instead) Now, 12 years later, I would do the same thing all over again. I worked out we had spent £140k educating my eldest daugher. But it's the OPPORTUNITES they get, not just the education. They can do anything they want. There are clubs every dinnertime, after school, my youngest daughter is very sporty, and has training 4 times a week. She have the best coaches at the school, is given the best facilities and the best equipment. This costs, of course it does, and I if I want the best for my kids (I make no apologies) then I'll buy it. If I want them to get a career in field I can give them a lever up, I will do. Again, I make no apologies. Considering no-one outside of the private system is affected by what other people do wihtin it, it stil amazes me how many people have a chip on their shoulders about private education (see some of the comments above) The funny thing is, half my friends were privately educated, the other half, along with me, weren't. The state school kids are more rounded IMO than my privately educated friends. they have a better work ethic, and probably have more common sense. I am however not one of those people who expect a school to round your children, give them principles and common sense, that is as much my duty than the schools. And again, just going on the (typical) comments above, it tends to be more chip-on-shoulder people who oppose these (only for rich people? Give me a break! It's as much to do with priorities than it is expense. I believe most people could educate their children privately if THAT was what they deemed the most important thing. It has nothing to do with RICH people. My wife and I worked 140 hours a week between us to send our kids there when they were young. I sold a car for a terms fees. I re-mortgaged my house 6 years ago when things were tight. And the comments from some of the posters above (no surprise on one of them but I thought moontheloon was slightly more intelligent) shows a complete misunderstanding of the current education system (and my wife is a headteacher in the state system now so I think she's fairly well versed) and really what parent's consider to be important for their kids) Fair play for unquestionably defending the best for your kids - I'm sure all of us who are parents would agree 100%. However, it's the bit in bold (other than the rapings and faggings - I only mentioned that half jokingly on page 1) that concerns me most, not that we could ever afford a private education for our daughter, even if we made significant sacrifices. But, working in and living near Bath, I've come across a few privately educated people and what you say certainly seems to be the case. All but one of the privately educated people I've known over the years has been at best lacking in all common sense, at worst an objectionable twat who treats everyone not on the same financial (cos money ALWAYS comes first) and intellectual level as them like shit. I appreciate that that is something that can't be applied to all privately educated people, but it's been enough to put me off (even if we did have the money without a problem) and there are plenty of likewise examples of the same with every political party (although, on the other hand, you could argue that's just cos politics generally attracts chinless posh cunts with more money than sense and personality - one of my local MPs, Jacob Rees-Mogg [who doesn't even live in his constituency] is a prime example). Obviously, jonson, your (and your kids') experience has been very different indeed, and it also highlights that the reverse arguement can be said of many a state school education ("my child has turned out to be an idiodic, clueless, drug addicted criminal", etc).
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